Friday, July 24, 2009

A Healthy Heart!!

Yesterday a very close friend of mine and hubby's, had a major heart attack. It was shocking because she was just 35 and had two kids aged 2 and 6 months. Yesterday was one of those days where I just couldn't believe that something this bad could have happened and reminiscing on how this could be avoided..

I went across Google searching on why heart attack hits women and how we can avoid it. Frankly I have never heard of a heart attack in women of such a young age. My family has seen 2 major heart attack deaths and 1 disabling major attack on a close relative. Believe it or not, heart attack is the major killer across the world..DO NOT take this lightly.

I downloaded a Heart Health Handbook from the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute website(http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/public/heart/other/hhw/index.htm) and I am quoting a few passages from this book that I felt were very important:

One reason some women aren’t too concerned about heart disease is that they think it can be "cured" with surgery. This is a myth. Heart disease is a lifelong condition—once you get it,you’ll always have it. True, procedures such as bypass surgery and angioplasty can help blood and oxygen flow to the heart more easily. But the arteries remain damaged, which means you are more likely to have a heart attack.What’s more, the condition of your blood vessels will steadily worsen unless you make changes in your daily habits. Many women die of complications from heart disease or become permanently disabled. That’s why it is so vital to take action to prevent and control this disease

Tests That Can Help Protect Your Heart Health

1) Lipoprotein Profile
2) Blood Pressure
3) Fasting Plasma Glucose
4) Body Mass Index (BMI) and Waist Circumference
5) Stresstest, an electrocardiogram (EKG or ECG)

The book says that it best to do the tests, once in 2 years..But you never know when a disaster can hit. Most companies have a tie up with hospitals for complete health checkup packages. Check with your HR if they have something in place and do an Annual checkup with your family. Listen to your body and your gut feeling.. Do not ignore any symptom that your body is giving you. Better to be safe than sorry. The doctor might think you are paranoid..So what?? Your family will be thankful to you for being paranoid.

Indian Women take a step back when it comes to their health...You have a family to take care of. Do NOT ignore your health. Find the time to be physically active.

Making Opportunities

Getting regular physical activity can be easy—especially if you take advantage of everyday opportunities to move around. For example:

■If you live in an apartment or your office is on the second or third floor, use the stairs—both up and down—instead of elevators. Start with one flight of stairs and gradually build up to more. That is equivalent to training on the elliptical trainer in a gym!!

■Park a few blocks away from the office or store and walk the rest ofthe way. If you take public transportation, get off a stop or two early and walk a few blocks.
Instead of depending on the man in the house to do the shopping, go out and do the shopping yourself. Get the grocery bags home yourself instead of making someone else deliver it for you. You will be unconciously doing some weight lifting exercises that way! Your family will be proud of you as well!

■Instead of eating that gulab jamun or that chat, take a brisk stroll around the neighborhood and have a fruit instead! Socialize with people! Talk to everyone (rich or poor, ugly or beautiful)...That is good for your heart! People will know you..When disaster hits, these people you socialized with, will be around to help you!!

■Do housework or garden work at a more vigorous pace.Get rid of that house maid and do the house work yourself!!I am pregnant now and I still do the house work. It flexes your muscles and burns that extra calories without pinching your pocket ;)!!

■Keep moving while you watch TV. Lift hand weights, do some gentle yoga stretches, or pedal an exercise bike.

■Spend less time watching TV and using the computer.

■Take a movement break in the middle of the day. Get up and stretch, walk around, and give your muscles and mind a chance to relax.

When a woman takes care of her health, she teaches her whole family to take care of their health.

Set a good example for other members:
  • Adults have a big influence on children’s and teens’ behavior—even though kids may not want to admit it! If you follow a healthy lifestyle, younger family members will be more likely to do the same. Let them see you eating nutritious snacks and enjoying outdoor activities. Invite them to join you.
  • Raise "kitchen kids." Show young children how to clean fruits and veggies and combine them into salads. When they are old enough, teach them to use the cooktop, oven,microwave, and toaster safely. Show teens how to make simple,healthy dishes. Children who have basic cooking skills appreciate food more and are more likely to try new dishes.
  • Get them moving. Encourage your kids or grandkids to get some exercise throughout the day and especially on weekends.Go on outings with them that involve activities such as hiking. Walk or jog with them to places close by. Use your backyard or local park for basketball,baseball, football, badminton, or volleyball.

Diet wise.

A special eating plan called "DASH" can help you lower your blood pressure. DASH stands for "Dietary Approachesto Stop Hypertension."

Eat healthy. Have fruits, vegetables, fat-free or low-fat milk and milk products, whole-grain products, fish, poultry,beans, seeds, and nuts. The DASH eating plan also contains less salt/sodium, sweets, added sugars, sugar containing beverages,fats, and red meats.

This heart healthy way of eating is lower in saturated fat, and cholesterol, and is rich in nutrients that are associated with lowering blood pressure—mainly potassium, magnesium, calcium, protein, and fiber. If you follow the DASH eating plan and also consume less sodium,you are likely to reduce your blood pressure even more. Sodium is a substance that affects blood pressure and is the main ingredient in salt.

Step up for yourself and take care of your body! If you fall sick, the whole family suffers!

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Save up!

I keep wondering why we Indians have such rigid mentalities where we choose to sacrifice our desires and save up our hard earned money for our kids and yet do nothing to save something for the public or for the good of mankind...

I used to think that this is an issue with just my workplace until my hubby tells me that its a problem in his place as well. This is not a problem with an group or organization or any institution, the problem is with each one of us..We are all brought up to save up and be selfish and protective about our nuclear families and not bother a damn about anyone else around..I remember my own mom scolding me when I was a kid when I told her during my Summer vacation that I want to clean the garbage dump in front of our colony...

Mom: "Are you crazy?? That is what the government has appointed workers for." (Horrified look on her face)
Innocent me: "Then why dont they come and clean it mummy??" (All pissed off!!)
Mom: "Aaaa...Why are you so bothered about that? You mind your business and go and study or come and help me in the kitchen or help Daddy clean the garden"
Me: "But I want to do something good"
Mom: "Helping your mom and Dad is all you have to do..And Study well and become a doctor or an engineer"
Me: "I will study well and you know that..That's not the question"

Mom is horrified and finally decides to pass the ball into my Dad's court..She knows very well how we three girls are terrified of Dad!

Mom:"Ketto....." (Translated: Listen Daddy).....ee kochinu aa road-ile poye waste vaari kalayanam ennu...Onnu vazhakku paranje....(This kid wants to clean the garbage on the road..Please scold her!)

Me: 'Damn..Okay fine..I am going to read my book'
Dad: Jinu,come here

Me....running away..."Daddy...I am going to read my book..."

Whew, that was my family picture...I can imagine millions of other kids experiencing the same Indian protective, yet callous, attitude.

I remember parents coming to my school and scolding my teachers for not teaching kids how to talk smartly and to be generous because "they spend most of their time here..They spend most of their productive time here and you need to teach them"...Isn't the same applicable after we grow up and start working??Forget about 8 hrs, we spend over 15 hours in office, then why is it that our companies dont take up the responsibilities to educate their employees on ways to behave in public?

We are going through times of recession and we change nothing in our lifestyle to save money for us or our country..At the most we personally cut down on eating out..Do you realise what all can be done to cut costs??

1) Ask your company to reduce the AC's. Most work places, have the AC's on at full strength through out the day..I understand if that is done in a Server Room or places that need lower temperatures for equipments to work properly. Rest of the times, AC's can be switched off at regular intervals to save electricity.

2) Wastage of Tissues. The modern IT company pampers us with free tissues, free coffee vending machines, free water, free phone facilities, free stationary, free print outs, free AC's...
Dont forget that this is all money..

Every document that you decide not to print, is saved money for a company..
Every tissue that you save, is money saved for you and the company... A tree that is not cut down somewhere....
Every time electricity consumption is reduced, is money saved for a better purpose(You never know, it might turn out to be our next month's salary)

If you see lights turned on unneccesarily, don't be ashamed to turn it off. I have felt ashamed many times but I have pushed myself to go forward and turn off that light. People have looked at me in surprise when I have done that..But I have felt a surge of pride when I explain 'Why waste electricity'!! ...I have felt good about it for the rest of the day.... Though no other Indian understands it!

The problem is that not many people even realise that a light is turned on unneccesarily..That is because they are not tuned to look out for something that can be turned off or saved.

We are responsible citizens. The country we live in doesn't matter anymore..We are facing a global crisis now..Save water, save electricity, save trees...Or else our kids will have nothing left and they will have to suffer..Let's not be selfish...Tune yourselves to be more sensitive..There is nothing to be ashamed about in that...Be proud that you think differently. You are contributing to a huge society when you do this...If educated people can't reach out and make a difference who else can?????

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Things taken for granted

We all take our lives for granted..Our beautiful bodies - fat or thin, Our eyes,Our sense of smell,our sense of touch,our ears,our brains,.... the simple fact that our bodies are driven by a very complicated machinery that we dont give a damn about. How granted we take our lives until we are deprived of them...


I just finished watching the movie 'At First Sight'. This movie is a true story inspired from the lives of Shirl and Barbara Jennings. I was overcome with emotions at the fact that any man could be so cheerful during his long years of blindness. Be cautious while his sight was restored and smile even as he hears the bad news that his vision is deteriorating again. The way he says 'the horizon is there even though you cant see it'....What an amazing testimony of human strength!!


The true hero is Shirl Jennings from Georgia. He has been blind since the age of 10. After 40 years of darkness,in 1991 he had his sight restored by two operations , becoming only one of a handful of people blind since childhood having their sight restored. He suffered from agnosia, an inability to process what he was seeing. It took him quite some time to learn to see at the age of 40. He could relate to things and identify them only through touch. He couldnt understand the concept of 3 dimensions, distance, height,objects and many of the little things we never think about!

Unfortunately, he virtually lost his sight when he contracted pnemonia in 1992.It returned to some degree as he recovered, but never near the acuity immediately following the operations. Jennings' illness left him disabled and he lost his cherished job as a masseur at the YMCA.
In 1996, despite his failing sight, Jennings began taking painting lessons. One of his paintings, an abstract work dominated by his favorite color, blue, is featured in "At First Sight.

Jennings has no regrets about gaining his sight for brief period, despite the upheaval in his life. "I appreciate all the sight I got now," he said, smiling. "I can see the world, instead of just imagining it."

His story was depicted in the 1999 film "At First Sight" starring Val Kilmer and Mira Sorvino. This great man died Oct. 26 in Atlanta of obstructive pulmonary disease at age 63.

Read http://archive.southcoasttoday.com/daily/01-99/01-22-99/b01ae036.htm for a full reporting by Lillian Lee Kim.

This post and story is an old one..But its never too late to experience the power of the human spirit and remind us that we have not yet discovered 10% of our strength!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Running away....

I close the door as softly as possible, not wanting to wake up my mother-in-law or my husband. I tiptoe out through the verandah with my bag packed with some clothes, my mobile and some money. The moment I am out of the gate, I walk in a fast pace occasionally glancing backwards to make sure that noone is following me..I see the 4am bus parked in the bus stand and inche towards it as calmly as possible. I had this desperate urge to run towards it but I feign calmness..I get into the bus and see an old man dozing off on one of the seats with his mouth wide open..I tiptoe past him and settle at the corner seat at the back of the bus..I heave a sigh of relief because here I was hidden from all eyes...Noone would notice me..My heartbeat slows down..I look out of the bus window and a tea stall near by ... Traders who are going to the market to get their load for the day, a fish monger and a few new paper boys all hold their tea cups close eagerly waiting for the liquid to wake them up fully...

The bus starts...I look at the conductor who has been eyeing me curiously for a few minutes...he comes towards me and looks at me with a question on his face...I stammer and says 'A ticket for Bangalore' and hand him a 50 rupee note...He takes the money from my hand and starts singing as he pulls out a ticket and the change. He puts it in my outstreched hand and lets it linger there a little longer that necessary. I give him a sharp distasteful look and he gives me a lusty smile with his stained teeth showing through his dark lips...I shudder and look away...I pretend to make a call on my mobile and he slowly inches away...He continues to stare at me as I pretend to dial a number...I pretend that I am talking to someone who is around the bus...'Yes..I am in the bus...The red one just in front of the bus stand....Yes, i took a ticket...Not many people in the bus..I will be fine..I will anyway call you soon.' The conductor turns his face away...

The bus starts..It lurches forward and I feel a pain in my heart..I hold on to a rail..I utter a prayer and try to relax....My life in the past 2 years rushes past me as the bus begins to gain speed...I have been happily married to a man who earns decently enough to sustain me...Life is bliss for a year but everytime I got a chance to contemplate, I felt that there was something missing...There were days that I would sit at the corner of my room and cry like a wounded animal unsure of where the pain was emanating from...I tried to reason with myself but I couldnt...People around told me that it was time to start a family..But deep within I knew that was not the answer to my pain...I tried to understand where I was feeling incomplete...But I failed to find that out.....everytime he tried to make love to me, I would look away unable to bear the pretention that I was enjoying life...He tried to talk to me but I myself didnt know why I was so sad...For a change we decide to visit his parents...Two days have gone by and I am suffocating here! I woke today morning drenched in sweat, I couldnt stay there a second longer...I pack my bags grabbing whatever I could and stepped out of the house...

I dont know why I did this..I think I am loosing my mind..God save me!

Friday, February 20, 2009

What do you call your mom and dad??

Some people have wierd but endearing names for their parents...Tell us what you call your Mom and Dad...

Thursday, February 19, 2009

About me!!

Tomorrow is Friday and I am already in a weekend spirit..Yesterday I got my first anonymous comment from Reflections. I was so elated by the knowledge that my blog is being read by strangers...And I feel that this is an excellent time to let you know a little about myself:)

Hmmm...I am wondering if I should tell you all my secrets....Hmmmm...Naahhh...What if my parents or sisters read it ;) I would be grounded for life!!

- I am a Proud Virgo..born on Teacher's Day, Sept 5th... (Do you know: Teacher's Day In india is celebrated on Sept 5th.It is the birthday of the second President of India, academic philosopher Dr. Radhakrishnan.

- I am the third sibling in my family and I am the black sheep of the family for doing notorious stuff. I think I am still a black sheep in my in-laws eyes as well for thinking 'out of the box'.

- I am what I am now because of Google!! I learnt all my cooking via the food blogs...Thanks to all you wonderful people out there..I am never ashamed to let everyone know that I owe it to Google and the blogs!!

- I can sing and dance...Okay dont be shocked!! I really can ....LOL!! But please don't ask me to dance in front of you..

- I have had different ambitions all my life ..... I wanted to be a Cardiologist, a Teacher,Be in the Air force or Navy, a Veterinarian, a scientist, an Acupuncturist, an Interior designer and now a psychologist!!

- I am an engineer by profession but I feel that I am not meant to be here..I feel that I have a completely different role to play in life touching people and making a difference...I want to be a psychologist someday!!

- My hubby is my guinea pig in all the new recipies I concoct! He is my biggest critic and I am his wrost critic ever..He gets pissed off with me for that!!

- I love english music and english movies..I am not so fond of any Indian movies/songs...How unpatriotic right?? Can't help it...

- I am very particular about cleanliness in my house. I would also love to be an interior designer....Arent you tired about about what all I want to become???

- I have always wanted to write a book but felt that I am not eloquent enough to write one.

- I am an extrovert by nature.

- Very passionate about what I believe in.

- I am dying to have a dog in my house but maintenance worries me!! You know..Cleaning crap!!

- I always make it a point to leave the house in a clean state when I go out..You never know who will be with you when you come back home..And I definitely don't want someone to see my house in a dirty state..

- I love waking up every morning to a clean house ;)

- I have to have a huge cup of tea to start my day!!

- I love trying out new cusines unlike my hubby who prefers to stick to a familiar cusine...

- I have 3 nieces and 1 nephew....Hubby's side...8 nephews!!! A handful to manage..

- I am concerned about the population burst!! I worry if we would ever run out of oxygen,food,water, flora and fauna!!

- I am a workaholic in all aspects....I am obsessed about getting into the ideal weight bracket.( I am a little Overweight now...psst)..I don't like to be too thin..I just want to be fit and strong like a horse :D ..IMHO women need a little fat..;) I am upset that Kate Winslet lost all that lovely fat she had!!I used to find her so genunine and happy when she was chubby...:(

Are you bugged up already??? Sorry I can't help it..Grab a cup of coffee before you start dozing off!! I will wait for you to get back :D

- I wish I could do something about keeping India Clean and pollution free..That's a totally different discussion which I will take up in a separate blog.

- I hate people who get rich fast by bribing others...

- I get so infuritated by India's infrastructure and the lax govt that I sometime get into bouts of frustration where I just want to leave this country and enjoy life in a better environment elsewhere.

- My biggest weapon when someone pisses me off.. I become cold and I ignore my enemy like a piece of stone...Trust me, this is the most effective weapon ever!!

- I am dying to learn photography after I get a Canon 400D

- I am quite a voracious reader..

- My nicknames : Panni(pig..Got this name from school), Gym Jinu(Got this name from College)

- I have a driving license but I am terrified of driving...I don't think I would have ever made it as a pilot.. Chuckle....

- I love cooking for my friends and my hubby...

- I love changes in life!!

- I don't feel motherhood is a requirement for me to be a complete woman..This the most controversial discussion I have with my dear ones...I am very happy the way I am.

- I want to travel around the world before I die

I guess that's all about myself!! There is certainly more but I am too tired already :D....
Have a great weekend!!

Friday 2/20/2009

I was reading Nancy's blog and she has said something about herself which is so true about me too...

"I enjoy hanging the washed clothes out on the terrace……I hang them neatly according to color, type & stand there for 2 mins & admire my handiwork after it is done…...all in the burning midday sun. "

I get upset if my hubby hangs out the clothes cos its never perfect ..:)..Once my cousin got annoyed with me for that and bit back saying 'Even I know how to hang clothes'...I allowed her to do it...came back after 10 mins and did the whole thing all over again....hehehe...

I hate keeping a maid at home for the sole reason that I have to do everything perfectly!!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Skandagiri.....My first trek..

I tempted my good old friend,Nidhi, with dreams of going up the hills to view the sunrise on a cold day....sounds tempting right?? Nidhi turns out to be this simple soul who is in love with nature and the small things in life....Finally after a lot of debates, I managed to convince my hubby about taking that big leap and do our first major trekking...Now 'Trekking' in my mind was a simple walk...probably jumping over a few boulders..Little did I realise that Skandagiri was much more than a simple walk....LOL!! Three friends backed out in the last minute and I got two new volunteers for the trek..(I dont think they will ever trek again for the rest of their lives...LOL!!!)...We set off for Skandagiri at 11:45pm in our Indica with loads of foodstuff, a bottle of vodka and some warm clothing....We had no clue where Skandagiri was and everyone on the road had absolutely no clue about this place called Skandagiri...Hubby calls up his junior and threatens him ...(One way conversation as follows:) : 'Hi Banu....Have you slept??Can you tell me the way to get to Skandagiri.....Okay.....Okay....Fine...I will call you after sometime..Dont sleep okay...Your appraisal is coming up...'....All of us in the car burst out laughing...After around 6 calls and asking close to 7 people, we finally find our way to Skandagiri....The last call to our guide : 'Hi Banu...We finally found our way to Skandagiri...Thank you....Yes you can...Good night'....Poor Banu had to get his Lead's Permission to Sleep also....Whew fate of we poor indian IT workers who have to work under others!! LOL!!

Anyways,we finally got to the base of Skandagiri and ended up bargaining with a guide to take us up the 'Betta'..we start walking..The ascend gets tough now...A few mins later...I call out in my hopeless Hindi... 'Guide Bhaiyya..Aur kitna door hai' the guide replies 'Madam its not even half way thru'.....everyone lets out explective's...In the beginning everyone used decent explective's...After sometime, we all started panting like dogs....By the grace of God it was a full moon day....In between I would get pissed off and call out 'Guide Bhaiya..Please torch dhikhayiyae....Cant see a crap...Sh&%'.The explective's get meaner and meaner....The one of the volunteers for the trip, Vatsala, turned out to have worn the wrong pair of shoes and she had to suffer the most...Her hubby was always beside her making sure she is doesn't get hurt...After sometime the ascend gets steeper and steeper..Rocks turn to loose sand and that's when things started getting hard..That occasional slip in the dark gives you that extreme rush of adrenalin and leaves your heart beating like crazy and you sweating profusely...It was an all-time dream of mine to visit the Himalayas.. And I think the trip to Skandagiri made me realise that it might not be all that possible...Hubby was openly relieved that I renounced the idea of going to the Himalayas...I was genuinely surpised that my hubby was much stronger and agile than he looked...Looks are indeed deceptive. ..;) Every step we started taking was getting painful and after sometime we were drenched in sweat and everytime I turned to look back at the others, my eyes would dart off to the sides and the way that we came up...I would get dizzy of the heights..Since when did I start getting this faint hearted...Damn it....Shame on you girl.... I secretly berated myself.

After sometime, we reached high enough to see the city lights..It was beautiful.Unfortunately the camera that we took didn't have enough clarity to get a candid distant shoot...Quite disappointing..After a while we hear a shout 'Jesus...where the F&Ck are you..Come down now...' We all looked at each other in surprise only to realise that we had company(loads of trekkers in fact)..We overtook a gang of guys (one of the guys' name was Jesus..)Jesus came down literally cursing the caller...We all burst laughing and continued with our journey..Nidhi and I would burst into occassional peals of our infamous laughter when we heard the guys screaming out 'Jesus, I am so tired of this F&*king trek...I am tried of taking mainframe calls on top of this place..'.Poor fellas...

I am skipping all the intricate details,but eventually we reach the top after constant motivation from the guide that there is a hotel and a temple on top where you can rest..My foot... We eventually reached the top, we see that the 'HOTEL', was infact a tent and a dilapidated temple ....There were a dozen people huddled up in the tent trying to catch some sleep...Whew..finally we reached the top...What a relief...It took a while for the sweat to dry off and then the freezing started..God..it was sooo cold....We were literally unable to talk....The breeze was quite strong and our guide left us to get the next batch of trekkers...We finally found a rock and hid ourselves behind it...With whatever little warm clothing we had, we sat huddled up next to each other..Our teeth chattering...Then the Vodka came...Irrespective of the gender, everyone had a sip to keep ourselves from dying from the cold...The vodka was a blessing ..I forgave the Russians for sometime for discovering this poison...:D..(Did you know: Vodka was originally called bread wine in Russia and Horilka is the Ukrainian term for "vodka )..Everytime Nidhi and I would burst into our uncontrollable peals of laughter some useless set of guys would imitate us..After sometime,my hubby chided us and asked us to shut up....Silence fell....Time was crawling....The night sky was beautiful and I saw the Big Dipper..The full moon was beautiful and we could detect the painfully slow movements of the moon. God those moments of waiting were terrible..We were so jealous of the other three friends of mine who backed out and who were probably huddled up under woollen blankets in the warmth of their houses and snoring away...After sometime our butts froze and we all decided to stand up and do some warm ups...It was much better than sitting on the rock...Finally, at 6:15am, we walked towards the summit..There were close to 300 people waiting to see the goddamn sun that was taking it own sweet time to rise!!



People started moving towards the summit and booking their places. At around 6:30pm everyone clapped their hands in unison when the city lights went off. In a few mins the horizon turned red.. Everyone waited eagerly...Most of the guys were cribbing that the sun wasn't even bothering to peep out...Whew...At around 6:50am, half of the spectators started departing...Everyone reasoned that there was too much fog and the sun has risen long time back....LOL!! I kept on convincing our gang that the sun will rise...Everyone lost hopes at 7am...We also decided to begin our descend...We took a few steps and then everyone started screaming at shouting....We ran like crazy back to the summit to find a beautiful blob of red peeping out of the red clouds...God it was beautiful....I had to praise God...It was an involuntary reaction...But I was a bit disappointed that the Sun wasn't very big...Cmon the Sun in Kaggadasapura(where I stay) is much bigger ;)

Anyways, everyone started taking out their DSLR cams and attaching lenses to capture the sunrise colours...I felt a pang of jealousy that I didn't have one to capture that moment...We did our best with the camera we had...After the Sun became bright and the red drained out to give way to bright yellow, we decided to descend down the rocks...The whole set of 300 people started going downhill...Vatsala had to get the help to two guys to escort her down safely...Jinu and I descended like robots dying to finally lay step on a flat land...Our legs were shivering out of fatigue....Finally at 8:20am, we reached plain ground...Whew finally ... yay!!! I did it...We did it.....We waited for another half an hour for the others to come down....The rest of the journey back home is still a daze...I have no clue how we reached back home...I remember uttering a prayer to God to take us back home safely...Jinu's eyes were so heavy with sleep that everytime I look into the rear mirror, I could see his eyes drooping...I tried to make conversation with him so that we wouldn't fall asleep...Anyways, we reached Bng and by 11am, we had breakfast and fell asleep. We had to take an off the next day to recuperate... This was our first major trek as a couple and I think we should go for more...;)


Guys thank you so much for making this trip a success!!You are the best!!